Saturday, 09 July 2011

  • Here's hoping for a fresh blogging start...

    It's been a LONG time since I've blogged with any kind of regularity. And I miss it!! Facebook and the ease of quick status updates versus lengthy blogs has played a big part in my blogging decrease. I've missed the interaction in the blog world though! I think I slowed down when most of my friends and siblings switched over to Blogger and readership/commentary slowed way down over here, as well. I'd toyed with the idea of switching to Blogger myself, but Xanga is what I've known and used for YEARS now - since 2006 I believe? So I was reluctant to learn a new format and abandon something I've loved so much over the years. But it's changed a lot over the years and doesn't feel like the right fit any more. Also, I've been chosen to participate in a cool weight loss contest hosted on a blogger blog starting on Monday July 11th and I'll be a contributing blogger on their site during the contest, which meant it was time to learn to use Blogger anyway. 

     

    Sooooooooo..... I'm making the jump. My new personal blog can be found at http://angcampbell.blogspot.com/ and I really hope you'll follow me over there! I've made some great friends in Xangaland over the years and I hope we'll be able to easily keep in contact!

     

    PS I'll be linking to my weight loss contest posts directly from my new personal blog so if you want to follow that weight loss experience you'll be able to find the links from my new blog!

Thursday, 17 March 2011

  • The good, the bad and the ridiculous...

    It's that time of week again when my American Idol fan friends come flocking to my blog to read my commentary on the performances of the night. Oh wait. That's not quite what happened two weeks ago when I posted my commentary. It wasn't the AI fans who came to read at all. It was the *non* AI watchers. And they thanked me for saving them the trouble of having to watch the show since I reviewed it so thoroughly. LOL. That totally cracked me up to see all these non-AI watchers commenting on my comments of the show. So my review this week is for AI fans and non-fans alike. (But as always, if you're uninterested, this is where you may be excused. Thanks for stopping by!)

    The good:

    Lauren. Much better vocal performance tonight, despite the flu. She showed a stronger range and power to her voice. I enjoyed it a lot.

    Scotty. Still not my favorite type of music. Still undeniably talented. And you can't help but love the kid. He's so down home country boy. With a maturity to his voice that NONE of the other males in the competition have.

    James. It wasn't my favorite performance of his, but I loved his confidence and the twinkle in his eye. When he challenged Steven Tyler to sing with him *WHEN* he was in the finale I cheered for him a bit. It was a humble, playful confidence - no arrogance at all. I love the guy even though, again, he doesn't sing my favorite type of music.

    Casey. He is the perfect blend of his parents, appearance wise! I couldn't believe how well they were evenly matched in his appearance. That red hair of his was a-blazin' with that funky yellow and chartreuse light show going on around him and he pulled some faces that totally made him look pupule, but I loved his performance. Smells like teen spirit? That's a first for the AI stage! Way to rock it Casey. 

     

    The bad:

    Pia's outfit. Who dressed her?! And then who told her to stand with her knees slightly bent, creating the most unflattering belly bulge ever shown on prime-time t.v.? (Arguably, she sang amazingly well. I'd be happy for her to ditch the Divas though!)

    Paul's "dancing". He looks like a total spaz on the stage. His vocals sounded a lot better on my sound system at home than they had on the tiny, tinny t.v. in the ER waiting room while Brady and I waited to have his lip stitched up. (Brady vs. the swimming pool feature at the skate park. Skate park totally won.) But his vocals coupled with his dancing tonight just had me scratching my head a bit. I can't tell if I love his originality or hate his Rod Stewart sound.

    Thia's underwhelming power song. The girl needs to infuse some youth into her performances. She took it up a notch by going with a more powerful vocal selection but didn't quite deliver. She is such a beautiful girl with a beautiful talent. I really wish she could get in the right groove for her!

    Naima's inability to get on and stay on pitch.

     

    The ridiculous:

    Randy name dropping every opportunity he gets, and feeling the need to list all his own accomplishments each time he comments on a contestant's performance. "Well as a musician, artist, producer, writer, stylist, mailman, preacher and car wash attendant... I really know what it's like to..." Get over yourself, Dawg!

    Karen's hair. What was that?! It didn't help with her old lady image, in my humble opinion. It just looked like a slightly updated beehive. 

    The judges fawning and freaking out over Stefano's performance. Paula Jennifer thinks he could win the whole thing?! Gag! I can't even watch him perform, let alone listen to his shrill tone. Gag gag gag.

    Lauren's mom. Seriously? The hat? Grow up Mommy. Let your baby girl be in the spotlight pretty please.

    Haley's make-up malfunction. (And wardrobe disaster.)

    And finally.... "lusky skank". Ri. Damn. Di. Cu. Lous. 

     

    My predictions for this week: Haley, Karen and Paul in the bottom three. Karen going home.

     

    There you have it. The good, the bad, and the ridiculous of the top 12. NOT my favorite week (and yet I watched every performance, and a few twice since I had to be sure those first few performances were really as bad as they seemed in the hospital waiting room. They were.)  See you next week! Here's hoping for a little less flat and a little more FUN!

     

  • The good, the bad and the ridiculous...

    It's that time of week again when my American Idol fan friends come flocking to my blog to read my commentary on the performances of the night. Oh wait. That's not quite what happened two weeks ago when I posted my commentary. It wasn't the AI fans who came to read at all. It was the *non* AI watchers. And they thanked me for saving them the trouble of having to watch the show since I reviewed it so thoroughly. LOL. That totally cracked me up to see all these non-AI watchers commenting on my comments of the show. So my review this week is for AI fans and non-fans alike. (But as always, if you're uninterested, this is where you may be excused. Thanks for stopping by!)

    The good:

    Lauren. Much better vocal performance tonight, despite the flu. She showed a stronger range and power to her voice. I enjoyed it a lot.

    Scotty. Still not my favorite type of music. Still undeniably talented. And you can't help but love the kid. He's so down home country boy. With a maturity to his voice that NONE of the other males in the competition have.

    James. It wasn't my favorite performance of his, but I loved his confidence and the twinkle in his eye. When he challenged Steven Tyler to sing with him *WHEN* he was in the finale I cheered for him a bit. It was a humble, playful confidence - no arrogance at all. I love the guy even though, again, he doesn't sing my favorite type of music.

    Casey. He is the perfect blend of his parents, appearance wise! I couldn't believe how well they were evenly matched in his appearance. That red hair of his was a-blazin' with that funky yellow and chartreuse light show going on around him and he pulled some faces that totally made him look pupule, but I loved his performance. Smells like teen spirit? That's a first for the AI stage! Way to rock it Casey. 

     

    The bad:

    Pia's outfit. Who dressed her?! And then who told her to stand with her knees slightly bent, creating the most unflattering belly bulge ever shown on prime-time t.v.? (Arguably, she sang amazingly well. I'd be happy for her to ditch the Divas though!)

    Paul's "dancing". He looks like a total spaz on the stage. His vocals sounded a lot better on my sound system at home than they had on the tiny, tinny t.v. in the ER waiting room while Brady and I waited to have his lip stitched up. (Brady vs. the swimming pool feature at the skate park. Skate park totally won.) But his vocals coupled with his dancing tonight just had me scratching my head a bit. I can't tell if I love his originality or hate his Rod Stewart sound.

    Thia's underwhelming power song. The girl needs to infuse some youth into her performances. She took it up a notch by going with a more powerful vocal selection but didn't quite deliver. She is such a beautiful girl with a beautiful talent. I really wish she could get in the right groove for her!

    Naima's inability to get on and stay on pitch.

     

    The ridiculous:

    Randy name dropping every opportunity he gets, and feeling the need to list all his own accomplishments each time he comments on a contestant's performance. "Well as a musician, artist, producer, writer, stylist, mailman, preacher and car wash attendant... I really know what it's like to..." Get over yourself, Dawg!

    Karen's hair. What was that?! It didn't help with her old lady image, in my humble opinion. It just looked like a slightly updated beehive. 

    The judges fawning and freaking out over Stefano's performance. Paula Jennifer thinks he could win the whole thing?! Gag! I can't even watch him perform, let alone listen to his shrill tone. Gag gag gag.

    Lauren's mom. Seriously? The hat? Grow up Mommy. Let your baby girl be in the spotlight pretty please.

    Haley's make-up malfunction. (And wardrobe disaster.)

    And finally.... "lusky skank". Ri. Damn. Di. Cu. Lous. 

     

    My predictions for this week: Haley, Karen and Paul in the bottom three. Karen going home.

     

    There you have it. The good, the bad, and the ridiculous of the top 12. NOT my favorite week (and yet I watched every performance, and a few twice since I had to be sure those first few performances were really as bad as they seemed in the hospital waiting room. They were.)  See you next week! Here's hoping for a little less flat and a little more FUN!

     

Monday, 14 March 2011

  • Neglected notes, tsunamis and being whisked away...

    I only ordered my title and the following blog segments this way because it's the order in which they took place. Certainly not ordered by importance!

    Neglected notes: I took 'em. I had pencil and paper and jotted down all my thoughts about American Idol last week. But life intervened and I never got around to sharing my review. Oh well. Ashthon deserved to go so it was good that the voting reflected that. I'm glad she's gone and I'm really glad to not have to type her stupidly spelled name again! (Maybe I'll check my notes and share a few of my thoughts from the night at the end of this post. It seems too late and unnecessary now. We'll see...)

    Tsunami: I guess the media really did some convincing that Hawaii was ravaged by the tsunami. We heard that there were reports of the tsunami "slamming into the Hawaiian islands" which in light of what truly happened in Japan is a gross overstatement. On O'ahu we just saw some crazy water behavior, with the ocean appearing to "dry up" along the normal shore area as the water receded quite far, exposing coral reefs that are always covered by water, and then rushing back in and covering the coral and much of the shoreline again with an insistent and obviously powerful swell. It was pretty creepy to watch the footage since it was in the wee hours of the morning with very little light to illuminate just a smallish area for filming, the video footage looked a lot like the ocean had just disappeared. And to see the water recede and return so quickly was an awesome and fairly frightening thing to see. We were grateful to be living where we live (almost 3 miles from the shore) where the family was able to go to sleep with confidence that we would be unharmed. I, of course, still couldn't sleep until I knew how the tsunami waves would affect our islands and ended up staying awake until about 4:30 in the morning. When I had seen the fourth or fifth wave arrive on O'ahu and the representative from the Pacific Tsunami Center said "It is highly unlikely there will be any extensive damage" on O'ahu I was able to finally hit the sack. Other islands were affected differently than O'ahu and there was more damage on the Big Island and Maui, but we were a-okay here on O'ahu. Thanks again to the dozens of friends and family on Facebook who let us know they were thinking of and praying for us. We really were able to stay quite calm and I know prayer was part of that. We feel grateful to have not had anything more than a minor inconvenience. The kids were excited to have school off on Friday due to the tsunami warning status not being lifted until after school hours began. As we've watched footage and photos of the devastation in Japan there are really no words to express the overwhelming feeling of helplessness. The people of Japan continue to be in our prayers, as we know they continue to be in the prayers of so many people around the world.

    Being whisked away: On Saturday afternoon Willy whisked me away to the Wahiawa Botanical Gardens for a stroll through a beautiful tropical place. The flowers and plants were amazing and while Willy enjoyed photographing things that most people never even notice, I enjoyed watching him. There's something extremely sexy to me about seeing him get really into the moment as he takes photos! And the photos he takes take my breath away! Here are just a very few of my favs from our little excursion.

       

     

    The gardens closed at 4 o'clock, so it was too early to head out for dinner and we weren't ready to head home. We got in the car and Willy started to drive. Pretty soon I knew just where he was taking us. We arrived at Kukaniloko and parked the car. I figured he just wanted to take some pictures and I started to follow him out of the car and he said "I'm taking my book. Don't you want to take yours?" So I grabbed mine too and we walked down the red dirt road to the beautiful, sacred spot on the island where centuries ago royal families brought the mothers to give birth to their royal offspring. I absolutely LOVE this part of the island. It's a reverent, peaceful place. Willy took some photos as I meandered through the birthing stones soaking in the feeling of the place. I leaned against a tree and opened my book ("Moloka'i" by Alan Brennert - an amazing book so far!) and started to read. A few minutes passed and I got a text prompting me to find Willy. I turned around and found him sitting on a little shaded grassy hill along the perimeter of Kukaniloko so I made my way over to him and got comfy on the hill where we sat and read for well over an hour. It was so pleasant! We just sat together enjoying our separate books, the peacefulness of the place and the comfort of each other's companionship. We played with a cricket that landed on Willy's leg. And we read some more. As the sun started to set Willy got busy taking pictures of the grove of trees in varying degrees of pink-ness and I watched him in his moment. There was something pretty magical about the whole afternoon and evening. Willy kind of swept me off my feet once again, with something so simple as taking me to one of my favorite places on the island where I could read my book in peace. A lovely, lovely way to spend time!

      

      

     

      

     

     

     

     

     

    Okay... I'll do it. Quick recap of my notes from AI even though I'm way overdue and this is totally irrelevant now.

    What did I love?

    • Lauren's personality but not the song so much - she needs to step it up with a really amazing vocal showcase this week.
    • Casey! His fun personality and performance was back. When he said "I want to be felt" I giggled long and loud.
    • Ryan doing the Paul dance. 
    • James!!!! Loved the softer controlled performance. The boy can SING. I'm loving him and this was my fav performance of his yet.
    • Haley! I've disliked her so much in past weeks with her weird facial stuff and schizophrenic vocals, but this week was so much more controlled. I totally dug it.
    • Making myself laugh as I pictured Stefano doing the Night at the Roxbury head bob a la Will Ferrell and Chris Kattan when that dance remix beat kicked in. Oh man that was an awful awful mix :P Gag!
    • Naima's dancing and reggae groove.

    What did I NOT love?

    • AshtHon. Flat flat flat. And where was the big high note that was built up in her little spot before the performance? I never heard it. She was awful. And what's with the extra, unnecessary "h" in her name? 
    • Paul doing his own dance. And his singing. Flat flat flat. (There's a bit of a recurring theme here for the night...)
    • Pia's hands. The hand coaches must have been too busy this week to help her out. It was ridiculous. (But her vocals were flawless.)
    • Jacob - The vocal gymnastics are so over the top. Was it really necessary to repeat that same out of tune trio of notes 82 billion times? With the watered down mini group of gospel singers? Gag. Awful.
    • The judges harshing on Thia. I loved her vocal performance. I even kind of enjoyed the jazzy groove of the arrangement. I think she needs an upbeat power song next week. We know she can do controlled simplicity. Now she needs to wow us with the amazing power she has in her voice.
    • Karen's old lady performance of the night. Totally boring and "sleepy" as Randy put it.
    • Scotty. Flat flat flat when the background singers joined him. And that last note slide was seriously painful.
    • Naima's vocals. Flat flat flat. But I dug the sweet arrangement of the song.

    That's it. I think I predicted Ashthon, Haley and Paul as the bottom three, so I got 2/3 correct. And I definitely had AshtHon pegged for going home and felt huge relief that the voters got that one right. Whew! Looking forward to the top 12 this week!

     

Thursday, 03 March 2011

  • I have a confession...

    I'm just going to say it. I watch American Idol with pen and paper in hand. That's right folks. I take notes as I watch. I'm that much of an American Idol dork. I can't help myself. How else am I going to remember the funny little bits that come and go so quickly during the show. Like all three judges totally grooving to someone's performance, but all three of them apparently hearing a different groove based on the way they're moving. And Steven's killer comeback to Randy as he said "If I agreed with you we'd both be wrong." Take that dawg. (Although Randy is kind of the only one apparently listening to the performances this season because JLo and Steven just want everyone to leave the stage smiling, it seems.) So yeah. I take notes. If I didn't I'd never be able to give you my overly wordy, usually catty and random thoughts on the show! And what a sad, sad world it would be without my review, right? Right??? Ha.

    To my non-AI friends, this is where you're welcome to politely excuse yourself. You can even roll your eyes at me as you leave if you want. I don't mind. My husband does it all the time. To my fellow AI watchers, please pretty please leave a comment and tell me your opinion of this season's talent!

    GUYS NIGHT

    Clint Jun Gambon - Superstitious? Is it just me or do we hear this song every season? Whatever. He sang it well. He's got a great voice and fun stage presence. I can't hate on his glasses because for some reason my 13 year old (who has no vision problems whatsoever...) is currently in a sport-the-black-rimmed-glasses phase and it's pretty dang cute on him so I'll let Jun's slide. The verdict is still a little out on this guy because of that whole kicking Jaycee out at the last minute thing during Hollywood week, but he can definitely sing.

    Jovany - Please make him go away. Sooooo boring and out of his league.

    Jordan - Please PLEASE PLEASE make him go away. This guy makes my skin crawl. He was a complete pig during Hollywood week, thinking he was so superior. GAG! He picked the lamest song ever and sang it even worse than the original. Cheesy performance, over-the-top but undeserved confidence. If that's not the style of music he wants to do why in the world did he pick that song? He's an idiot. That's why. Please. Make. Him. Go. Away.

    Tim - Nothing to woowoo or boo about. Just meh.

    Brett - Monsieur Hair Flip Extraordinaire. Someone get this kid a rubberband please. He can sing, but UGH that song :P

    James - Clearly being pimped as the next Adam Lambert. Did you notice the fancy lighting and effects during his performance? He was good, don't get me wrong, but I just totally feel like we're about to have him shoved down our throats the way the judges tried to spoon feed Lambert to us. I just want them to let us love him. Because I do. I think he's great. I like his story and his personality and he can carry a tune. Way to go James!

    Robbie - My friend mentioned this and now I can't stop seeing it: Robbie looks like Aladdin. As in "Prince" Ali who loves Jasmine and hates Jafar and hangs with blue Robin Williams when he comes out of the lamp. I dare you to not see the similarities next time you watch him. It's incredibly distracting and freaking spot on! He's got a really nice voice though. Hated his version of the song and got tired of the vocal gymnastics. But he can sing. "I can show you the world..."

    Scotty - I'm not a country music fan. But I'm kind of a Scotty fan. He's likable. He has a cool style about him. He sings really well and actually stays on pitch. I make myself giggle thinking of him singing during some theme weeks though. Can you imagine him having to sing a Michael Jackson song? 

    Stefano - Here comes a catty comment. He's too squinty. That drives me nuts. OPEN YOUR EYES. Love the song but did NOT love his performance in any way. The high note was excruciating (JLo's face said it all in that moment). Considering Randy's trusty standby comment "It has to be better than the original artist's version" Stefano flopped in a big way. Bruno Mars rocks this song. It's one of my favs and Stefano's take on it was painful to me.

    Paul - Awesome, unique voice. Singing Rod Stewart was almost too perfect for his voice though. He seems very likable and real. I'm digging Paul.

    Jacob - Okay. He can sing. Yes. He has great control of his voice. Yes. He seems absolutely and completely likable. Yes. Am I a fan? NO. Do I think there are fans watching the show whose taste in music matches the kind of music he's likely to sing over and over and over and over again this season? NO. Do I think the judges will still probably save him when America doesn't vote him in? Yep. Probably. Yuck. 

    Casey - Was a favorite. Still has potential. I thought he was a hot mess during this performance though. Bring back the bass Casey. Bring back the control.

     

    GIRLS

    Ta-Tynisa - Seriously? That's how you spell her name? Wow. This girl should never EVER have been given a chance in the top 24. She didn't just forget a line or two of lyrics during Hollywood week she completely made up random illogical words to a song that I've probably heard three times ever and could at least sing a few lines with the correct lyrics. She drove me crazy in that audition bit and she drove me crazy tonight. She started flat and never managed to find her pitch (or catch her breath it seemed.) I thought she was straight up awful and I was kind of embarrassed for her. Now watch... she'll be in the top 12 and I'm going to have to invest in ear plugs. Sigh.

    Naima - Her performance was a little obnoxious and stagey but she has a great voice and her last note was hot.

    Kendra - I thought she did an excellent cover of a really beautiful song. She tweaked just enough that it wasn't a total copycat but stayed true to the song and did it justice. I don't really know anything about her though and I feel a little bad for her that she's one of those contestants who didn't stand out during auditions and we're kind of left scratching our heads wondering what her story is and how she got to be in the top 24. I mean clearly she's there because of the singing. She has a great voice. She could work on her stage presence.

    Rachel - Jazzy version of what I consider a crazy sexy sounding song did not work for me at all. The dramatic cape toss was a big fail, too. I like her but the arrangement was awful and her performance didn't do anything for her chances to stick around I'm afraid.

    Karen - Spanglish? Really? Yuck. I hated that. I know JLo loved it. I did not. Karen has a GORGEOUS voice. And she's a beautiful girl. She had the old lady performance of the night though. I hope she doesn't do the Spanish/English blend every time because I may just have to use the earplugs I invest in for when Ta-Tynisa (seriously... is that how we spell that?!) sings. Spanish? Fine. English? Great. Bouncing back and forth? Totally irritating.

    Lauren Turner - Don't know much about her. I do know that outfit wasn't very flattering. And I do know she can sing. I can't decide if I like her or not LOL. I'm not going to get too invested in her because I doubt she'll stick around. We don't know enough about her back story.

    Ashton - Dumbest song I've ever heard. Was it just me or did it sound like she was singing about dog poop? "Must not have been paying attention - I stepped right in it" I really really hated that song. She's a diva. There always has to be one who makes the top 12. Meh.

    Julie - *JAZZ HANDS* Someone give this girl something to do with her hands please. And help her pick a better song for her voice? I think the nerves just totally ruled her performance. I've really liked her before tonight. Tonight was not great for her. At all.

    Haley - She has a schizophrenic voice. She goes from nasally whiny to growly husky and back again all in the same musical phrase. It makes me a little nuts. Combined with the wrinkled nose and other interesting facial contortions and she's like an episode of Barney. I can't make myself look away. I kind of slip into a weird trance. I don't like it. She seems really real and genuine until she starts singing and then it's all sorts of oddities. The killer is she can sing. I don't know why she does all the weirdness. Jury is still out on Haley.

    Thia - Love her. Love her. Love her. Did I mention I love her? Easily one of my top three of the season.

    Lauren Alaina - Love her. Love her. Love her. Did I mention I love her? Another of my top three. I hadn't heard the country in her singing before tonight and although I'm not a country fan I can see her as a really great cross over artist. I LOVE her seeming effortless confidence and presence on stage. I think she's adorable. I loved that Randy compared her to both Kelly and Carrie because that's what I'd been doing as I watched and listened to her, too. She will go far. No doubt.

    Pia - Amazing vocals. Great control. When the coaches are done teaching Julie what to do with her hands maybe they could spend a few minutes coaching Pia, too. That's all.

     

    So we're off to a fun start. I'm anxious to see how the top 10 rounds out after America's voting. And I'm terrified to see who the judges throw back into the mix with their wild card picks. I'd be pleasantly surprised if they brought back Chris Medina for the guys! But I'm pretty sure we'll be stuck with Jordan or Jacob even when America resoundingly says "NO!" to them both.

    What did you all think?

     

    If you want to play along with my American Idol Pick'Ems game on Facebook come join the fun! Bragging rights at stake :) Just check out the notes section on my profile to find the details. 

     

Wednesday, 02 March 2011

  • "I love myself"...

    Molly likes to play a game with us. She'll take our face in her hands and physically turn our head back and forth as she whispers words in one ear and then the next. Her favorite phrase with me is "You're my favorite girl in the whole wide world." (Nine turns of the head if she actually turns it once per word... usually she'll cluster a few, thank goodness.) She also frequently just says "I love you" (three head turns. Much more doable!)

    Lately her game has evolved into a bit of teasing.

     

    "I"

    turn head

    "love"

    turn head

    "Daddy!" (when she's saying the words to me.)

    Giggle giggle giggle.

     

    "I"

    turn head

    "love"

    turn head

    "BenBen!"

    Giggle giggle giggle.

     

    I've started responding to this game twist with an enthusiastic "Me too!!!!"

     

    But when she played the game the following way, I cried.

     

    "I"

    turn head

    "love"

    turn head

    "myself!"

     

    Is there any more beautiful phrase in the world that a parent could hear their child speak? I struggle so intensely with self-acceptance and feelings of self-worth. I don't want my children to suffer that way. I want them to know how much they are loved and how much Heavenly Father loves them and how important it is for them to love themselves and take care of themselves. It seems Molly is on the right track! I am so grateful.

     

Wednesday, 09 February 2011

  • Our house was the happening house...

    We had houseguests last week! Two sets even! My sister Mindy and her husband Damon came and so did Willy's parents! We thought logistically it would be tricky, but as it turned out we only had them all in the house together for 2 nights (and they barely saw each other because they were going in different directions). We had SUCH a great time with them!! Karen and Lloyd had been here a few times before so they were mostly here to just visit and love on the kids which the kids LOVED. And it was awesome to have them here because they were incredibly generous in offering to stay with the kids so we could go out and have some fun with Mindy and Damon a few times. It was a busy, busy week filled with all the good ol' touristy activities that we love and lots and lots of just hanging out and enjoying each others' company. The sun came out after weeks of rainy weather and we spent a lot of time in the water and it was just wonderful! The only negative about the week happened on Friday night while we were playing in the water at Waikiki Beach and suddenly Willy realized his wedding ring had come off somewhere in the water. It was crystal clear water and nice and shallow and about 10 of us searched that water for well over an hour until the sun set and we couldn't search any more. Walking out of the water and leaving the ring behind was gut-wrenching. I actually hired a guy yesterday to go out in the water with his metal detector to give it one more good search, but of course a couple days had passed so the ring was nowhere to be found. Someone probably found it and now we're just hoping that the person who has it tries to find the us on Craigslist before taking it to a jewelry or pawn shop. I've just been heart sick about it. 

    But on to happier stuff! Pictures, pictures and more pictures! Prepare to be bombarded.

    We went to Hanauma Bay for some snorkeling with Mindy and Damon right after they got off the plane! Damon and Willy saw an octopus and a couple of turtles. (Hope Willy doesn't mind me sharing his octopus video. It is SWEET!) Mindy and I saw lots of fish and were just glad to get out of the water with no puking incidents. (Mindy got a little motion sick in the waves hehehe. She did GREAT for her first time snorkeling though! She was nervous the way I was when I first started but we stayed out quite a while and she did awesome!)

     

    Then we went to the lookout to watch for whales and we weren't disappointed! Several sprays, humpbacks and tails!

    On Sunday, Nana and Papa got here and we enjoyed a relaxing Sunday visiting with them while Mindy and Damon celebrated Damon's birthday at the Probowl.

    Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday were just fun days with our guests coming and going and doing their thing. Mindy and Damon got an awesome little condo on the Leeward coast for a few nights and really enjoyed their stay right on the beach. One of the nights I was there with them I actually saw the green flash at sunset for the first time! A bunch of people on the beach saw it and cheered and clapped when it happened! Super sweet :) (And Brady had a blast boogie boarding with Damon in the HUGE waves while Toby and Molly played in the sand.)

    Thursday, Willy's folks offered to watch the kids so Willy and I could have a day with Mindy and Damon. We headed up to Waimea Falls and enjoyed the hike and the F-R-E-E-Z-I-N-G cold water at the bottom of the falls. My toes were numb within 15 seconds of being in the water! We've never felt it that cold, but we still played in the pool at the bottom of the falls and enjoyed the magic of that place.

    We also got shave ice that day, and relaxed on the beach in Hale'iwa. A LOVELY day!

    Friday we were supposed to go out on the boat with some friends but the timing didn't work out so we ended up with a pretty relaxing day at home until the late afternoon when the kids got out of school and we headed for Waikiki. Fun times... till the ring was lost :(

     

    Now he has it...

     

    Now he doesn't :(

    Ended the night with Teddy's and fireworks, but nothing could really make me feel better. So devastated by the ring getting lost!

      

    Saturday was the BEST day of the week! We went out on the boat with our friends and had an amazing time! The conditions were perfect and it was a beautiful day for a little whale watching cruise :) We were treated to LOTS of whale sightings, dolphins jumping and spinning for us, and the scariest 2 or 3 minutes Willy has ever been in the water. Check out the video! He's always been really nervous about swimming in the "deep blue" (as opposed to the reef waters where he can see the bottom) and sure enough, he jumped into the water and practically landed on one of five sharks that were RIGHT THERE in the water! When he popped his head up and said "There are sharks!!!" and then almost immediately added "Okay! I'm done!!" my heart was racing and I can't even imagine how hard his must have been pounding. And then he had to get his fins on so he could get himself back into the boat, all the while trying to keep an eye on the sharks :P C-R-A-Z-Y!

    Getting ready to jump in...

    This is what he saw immediately when he jumped in the water! He cut this video down in size because the rest of it is just him trying not to panic in the water as he got his fins on so he could get back on the boat LOL. 

    Getting hauled out...

    The adrenalin rush that stuck with him for a long time after getting out of the water...

    Whales and dolphins galore!

    Saturday evening Nana and Papa took the boys to their hotel (they got a room in Waikiki the last couple nights and Mindy and Damon came back to our house those nights) to go swimming while Mindy and Damon treated Willy and I to dinner at the Cheesecake Factory. Yum yum!!! (Molly tagged along with us.)

    And then Sunday was just about the most depressing day ever. We went from a house full of 10 people to a house with only 5 in just a matter of a few hours. So sad! First we went to church just for the first hour, then we had to take Willy to the airport for his business trip to Manila. Then we headed to Waikiki to pick up Nana and Papa and we went to a park to kill a bit of extra time before they needed to be at the airport. Then we dropped them off and headed home where we hung out and relaxed with Mindy and Damon, had dinner and then took them to the airport too. It's so lonely around here now!!! Here are some pics from that day.

    Now we're just holding ourselves together while daddy's gone. Wheeeeee. Someone come visit! I'm lonely!

     

Friday, 28 January 2011

  • Dance like there's no one watching. Or judging. Or name calling...

    Molly started taking hula lessons this month. She was SO excited to go to her own dance class with other little girls! She'd attended hula classes with me and loved the music and movement and picked up on the dances I was learning just by watching each week. It got to the point where she would rush out onto the dance floor when the music for "White Sandy Beach" would begin because that was her favorite song and she loved to dance by my side. So I tentatively asked my hula teacher if she thought maybe Molly was ready to start coming to the keiki class, even though she won't be three until April. Our teacher agreed that it was obvious Molly was passionate about dance and she gave us the opportunity to bring Molly to class for a few weeks to see how she'd do in a class setting where Molly needed to be more focused and to participate and follow rules and then we could decide after a month or so if it's a good fit for Molly at this time. Molly's nursery leaders have told me she's the "star of the class" when it comes to participation, particularly in music time. So I was cautiously optimistic about Molly being able to do well in the class and I was just certain she'd be in heaven. I'm in heaven during my hula class and Molly had shown similar inclinations so I was really excited for this opportunity for her!

    On January 6th she attended her first hula lesson. She loved it! And I was so proud of her for paying attention and doing what was instructed. I had coached her before class, explaining that she needed to "keep your eyes on Auntie and do what she says and what she shows you. Be a good girl!" And she did great. And was eager to go again! She loved it!

     

     

    By the end of class she was pretty much done with the structure and just wanted to have some fun!

     

    I wish I'd paid more attention to the joy on her face when she was being "silly".

    The next week was similar to the first week. She was focused on the newness of it all and followed along the best she could. She was a little more easily distracted than the other girls, but she was a full year younger than any of the other girls too (and 4 years younger than the oldest!) so I wasn't concerned at all.

    The third week she went a little crazy. I called her behavior "naughty". That Tahitian beat would start and she just danced and shook and did her own thing. She reminded me a lot, actually, of Patrick Dempsey's character in the movie Can't Buy Me Love when he starts the crazy African dance craze at the high school dance.

    I had to keep telling her to look at Auntie, to focus, to "stop being silly". She really struggled that day, though. I was embarrassed and worried that she was distracting the other girls. I was frustrated and disappointed. But I couldn't help but laugh because she was having so stinkin' much fun just being crazy and dancing however she felt like dancing. But I kept the laughter under control when I talked to her. I went so far as to threaten to take her home mid-class, told her if she was going to be a "naughty girl" we couldn't come to hula any more. I probably said that 10 times. On the way home I reiterated it... "If you are going to be naughty during class you can't go to hula any more!" She insisted she wanted to go to hula more, and every time during the week when we'd talk about hula class I would remind her "No being naughty! No being silly!" She was adamant that she would pay attention and do what she was supposed to do and not be silly or naughty.

    So we tried again last night. I fully anticipated her being crazy and silly again and that was going to let us know she wasn't quite ready for hula because she just doesn't quite have the attention span and focus for it yet. Boy did she prove me wrong! She was completely dialed in last night. Eyes on the teacher almost the entire time. Trying her hardest. Focusing as well as a 2 year old can be expected to focus. I was shocked at her change of behavior. And I praised her like crazy during water breaks and she'd softly smile and give me high fives and go back out on the dance floor and re-focus. A few times she'd start acting like she was about to bust out some crazy moves but a quick glimpse of my "no no naughty!" look and she'd snap right back to it.

     

    As the class was coming to an end I was contemplating how well she had behaved and was feeling all sorts of pride when I looked more carefully at her. There she was, hands held above her head just like she was supposed to do, shaking her hips the best she could, and her little chin was quivering, she kept biting her lip to keep it from pouting and her eyes were glistening with the threat of tears. She kept going, but I could see her holding back emotion. I was equal parts stunned that she was so determined to be a "good girl" and do what she was supposed to be doing, and stunned that she was so unhappy. When the music ended I dropped to my knees and opened my arms and she ran to me for a big hug and she let the tears fall. I chalked up her emotion to being exhausted from a long and focused class and just gave her lots of love and lots of praise for being such a good girl. When class was over we headed home and I told her over and over again how proud of her I was.

    Later in the evening I continued showering her with praise. At one point I said "You weren't naughty girl Molly! You were dancer girl!" and she replied "I was sad girl."

    Thud. My heart dropped. She wasn't just tired. She was sad! And it all became very clear. She wasn't being naughty last week! She was being TWO! She was laughing and jumping and joyful. But I labeled her "naughty" and "silly". Is she capable of focusing for a 45 minute dance class? As it turns out, yes! She is! But at the expense of her joy, and that's a price that's way too steep for her to have to pay. She wasn't passionate about hula like I thought. She's passionate about life! And movement! And jumping! And laughing! And being an energetic 2 year old! And dancing however she feels like dancing! I'm not going to squash that passion in a 2 year old because of something I'm passionate about. When she said she was "sad girl", I paused a moment and then asked "Do you want to go to hula next time?" and she closed her eyes and shook her head, no. And I'm okay with that. I praised her for being such a good girl in class and now I'm working on praising her for being so full of life and joy and I'm going to try to follow her lead. And I told her we don't have to go to hula any more. I believe there's excellent value in learning respect for teacher, focus and attention, and acquiring skills that come from attending classes and lessons. But there's even greater value in learning to love life and find joy in it. Molly apparently wants to dance, but in her own joyful way for now. Classes will come later, and I'm totally okay with that.

    And today? We're dancing together for joy! Not for class.

     

     

     

    ** When she came over and saw me working with her hula pictures and videos, Molly said "I want to go to hula!" LOL. Go figure. I know I can let go of the "naughty girl" name-calling I was dishing out (good grief... am I a crappy parent or what?!) maybe we'll try one more week and see if she's having FUN during class without distracting the other girls. It's not fair to take her just for her to have fun and go crazy to the detriment of the other little girls' learning experience. But if next week is a more balanced experience I'm open to letting her continue. The lesson to stick with something once you've committed to it is something I'll make sure she learns when she's a bit older. For now I'll let her call the shots on whether we continue or not.

Thursday, 13 January 2011

  • Exactly 200...

    That's the number of birthday wishes I got from friends on Facebook today. When I checked my email for the first time this morning I had 124 new emails. WHAT?!?! It was a little overwhelming, and even at one point I thought "Okay. Fun's over. Enough email notifications of FB wishes already!" But the reality? It's 11:25 p.m. and I just counted all the Facebook birthday wishes I got today. Because it was so. dang. cool. to be showered in love all day long. I had my email box being refilled throughout the day, my phone was pinging my notification of new emails throughout the day, and frankly, I loved it.

    So here's how I spent my day when I wasn't checking my email or my Facebook wall.

    • Enjoying the sound of the rain. It rained a LOT today.
    • Sending Brady to school early in the rain because he had JPO (Junior Police Officer, aka crossing guard) duty today.
    • Allowing two of my kids to skip school today. Partly because we were going to meet a friend at the Aloha Stadium Swap meet today to say good-bye before he leaves the island, but mostly because I didn't want to get out of bed and take the kids to school in the rain. How lazy/cool am I? (Depending, of course, on who's interpreting my actions...)
    • Getting a call from the friend leaving the island and finding out he wasn't going to the swap meet due to the rain. Bummer! We'll try to see him off at the airport tomorrow night, instead.
    • Deciding whether to take Ben and Toby to school for the rest of the day or just let them stay home since we weren't going to meet friend after all. Kept them home. I'm not even going to try to pull off cool. Total laziness.
    • Finishing up a digital scrapbooking product to release in the Scrap Girls boutique tomorrow. Gotta love boutique Thursday!
    • Wondering why I had to cattle prod the kids to help with anything around the house, when the only thing I've been asking for for my birthday is a clean house so I don't have to clean on my birthday.
    • Cleaning on my birthday.
    • Specifically, cleaning the boys' bathroom.
    • Taking the requisite shower after cleaning the boys' bathroom.
    • Picking up Brady early from school and having to explain why he was the only one that had to go to any school today. (See above. Lazy/cool, depending on who's interpreting my actions.)
    • Cleaning on my birthday.
    • Folding laundry on my birthday.
    • Cleaning on my birthday.
    • Cleaning on my birthday.
    • Cleaning on my birthday.
    • Losing my patience with the kids who reluctantly helped around the house when I was watching but would gravitate back to the t.v. when I wasn't looking.
    • Picking up after Monsoon Molly and Typhoon Toby who managed to undo everything I did today when I would turn my back on them.
    • Hollering at my kids and laying the guilt trip on T H I C K for no one caring enough to grant my one lousy birthday wish.
    • Finding that Brady had "cleaned" his room by shoving quite literally everything he and Molly own into his closet. 
    • Throwing a giant temper tantrum at the discovery of Brady's cleaning method, which included the declaration "I'm done! I'm leaving!", stomping to my bedroom, locking the door and folding more clean laundry as I contemplated how good it would feel to actually run away for a few minutes. Just to the 7-Eleven or something. Just away. I would have liked to go sit on the beach. Did I mention the rain, though? Sigh.
    • Feeling pounds of guilt weigh down on me as I heard Brady start sobbing and begging Ben to come help clean because "Mommy said she's leaving! I don't know where she's going but please come help so she doesn't leave!"
    • Deciding the house was "good enough" for our house guests and realizing that my friend has seen it worse than this so enough needed to be enough, for the kids' sake and mine.
    • Experiencing a moment of thrill when FedEx showed up at the door with a package for me. Found a "You've won a sweepstakes!" notificationalong with a prize: a facial cream set for women aged 60+. Uh. Nice. Happy NOT 60th birthday to me!
    • Excitedly greeting my friend and her daughter when they arrived on the island for a visit.
    • Talking. And talking. And talking some more, as if no time had passed since the last time Kristi and I got to gab face-to-face, even though it's been about a year and a half since we last visited in person.
    • Meeting Willy at one of my favorite restaurants, Buzz's Original Steakhouse for Ahi, steamed veggies, garlic mashed potatoes and the best salad bar on the island (fresh avocados! killer pickled cucumbers and carrots! amazing pineapple!), and free Grasshopper Ice Cream Pie with a lit candle for my birthday.
    • Having my friend and her hubby (who arrived a few hours after her) meet us at dinner. More talking. And talking. And talking.
    • Stopping at the mall with Willy to check out phone accessories for our new fancy-pants phones. (Didn't buy any because we can get them MUCH cheaper online it turns out. Even with the ridiculous shipping rates to Hawaii.)
    • Allowing one of the kiosk people to coerce me into her chair so she could make my hair pretty. Pamper me? Play with my hair? Okay. Twisted my arm. Just please don't burn my ears with your super sweet flat iron. Also don't count on me dropping $200 (or even the $100 one-day deal you offered for my birthday) for an impulse buy. And tell me again how sexy my quickly growing patch of gray is so I can pretend for a minute that it actually is. Oh, and I liked the part about my beautiful eyes. Definitely feel free to mention that again.
    • Feeling sleek and sassy with my uber shiny, straightened hair as we meandered through the mall. I know. I'm living the high life.
    • Feeling my uber shiny, straightened hair return to it's normal frizzy, messy state when I had to dart through the rain to the car. 
    • Watching the lightning and listening to the thunder as we headed home from our night on the town.
    • Tucking the kids in bed after a brief bit of drama about who was sleeping where and with whom due to house guests needing a place to sleep and being given one of the bedrooms for their stay. Oh how we need a 4th bedroom!
    • Opening a wonderful present from Willy: the Willow Tree nativity! I've wanted it badly and he wanted to give it to me for Christmas but it got delayed in shipping so YAY for a birthday three weeks after Christmas LOL.
    • Counting Facebook birthday wishes.
    • Blogging.
    • Enjoying the sound of the rain.
    • Saying good night.

     

     

Thursday, 06 January 2011

  • Are ya achin' for some bacon?...

    Willy has a new (possibly unhealthy but...) definitely helpful obsession with the site www.lifehacker.com. It's a site that shares tips and advice on, well, everything. From housekeeping (probably not Willy's wisest move when he sent me the link to that during *that* time of the month...) to budgeting (we'll be looking into Mint further for some help on tracking our expenses; anyone have experience with it?) to fixing bike tire flats without a spare tube to... BACON! One of the tips they shared was that you can bake bacon. Was I the last person to know this? Because wow oh wow is bacon easier to make when you just toss it on a foil-lined cookie sheet at 400 for 15 minutes or so. The problem? I buy bacon at Costco. So a package has about 6 weeks worth of Sunday brunch bacon in it. When that giant package of potential yumminess sits in my fridge for a few weeks begging me to be eaten every time I look at it, and then I learn tricks that help me easily convert that potential into reality, I'm sort of unstoppable. My house sure smells good right now though. Good thing I've got Zumba to help me work off the indulgence, or at least try. I'm still in "hot mess" mode with that whole Zumba thing.

    To summarize: Lifehacker? Cool. Lifehacker tips about housekeeping sent to wife while she's going with the flow? NOT cool. Costco-sized packages of bacon? Dangerous. Baking bacon? Heavenly.

     

     

    *Virtual high-fives to whoever knows the reference in my title :)

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